Words are magic.
No, really. They can build worlds or destroy them. They can make people follow you or run away from you. They can open doors that seem locked forever.
But here's the crazy part:
Almost nobody teaches us how to use this superpower!
Schools teach you to read. They teach you to write. But they rarely teach you how to speak with power.
And here’s what most engineers miss:
The most dangerous person in the room isn't the smartest. It's the most articulate.
What Does "Articulate" Really Mean?
Think of a robot toy. Some have arms that don't bend - they're stiff and can only move up and down.
But the cool robots have joints. Their arms bend at the elbow, wrist, and fingers. They can do amazing things because they're articulated.
That's what your speech needs to be - not stiff, but flexible, precise, and powerful.
Being articulate means:
Finding exactly the right words
Speaking with confidence
Making others understand exactly what you mean
Convincing people to see things your way
Why Being Articulate Matters (Even If You're Not Planning to Rule the World)
"But I don't want to be a speaker or politician!" you might say.
Doesn't matter.
If you want to be a DevOps, being articulate helps you get others on board with your automation plans.
If you want to be a CTO, being articulate helps you explain the architecture to customers.
If you want to be a doctor, being articulate helps you calm scared patients.
If you want to be a game developer, AI researcher, parent, friend... anything!
The words you choose don't just change how others see you. They change how YOU see you.
5 Magical Steps to Become Articulate
1. Pay Attention to What You Say
Listen to yourself speak. Really listen.
Notice when you say "um," "like," or "you know." These are weeds in your speech garden. Pull them out!
2. Take a Breath and Pause
The next time someone asks you a question, don't rush to answer.
Take a breath.
Pause.
Ask yourself: "What do I really think about this?"
Not what you're supposed to think. Not what's easy to say. What do YOU actually think?
Then say that.
SURPRISE TWIST: The best speakers aren't fast talkers. They're thoughtful pausers.
3. Read Great Writers
Want to speak better? Read better!
Great books are full of amazing words and ideas. They'll fill your brain with treasures you can use when you speak.
4. Write Down Your Thoughts
Writing makes you organize your thinking. Even if no one else reads it, writing helps you figure out what you really believe.
5. Practice Speaking Truth
Here's the biggest secret: speak what you truly believe.
Not what's popular. Not what's easy. Not what will win you points.
Say what you honestly think is true.
This is harder than it sounds! Most of us speak to get something - to look smart, to win arguments, to fit in.
But when you speak your truth, something magical happens. Your words have weight. People listen. You become interesting.
Your Turn
Tonight, try one experiment.
In your next conversation, before you speak, pause for one second and ask yourself: "Is this what I really think?"
Then say that.
Do this every day, and within weeks, you'll start to notice something.
People will listen to you differently.
They'll ask what you think.
They'll remember what you said.
Because when you become articulate, you don't just change your words.
You change your world.
I really liked these tips, Daniil
I would add that you should be the last to speak. It is much better to listen to the different perspectives first and then reflect.