Weak engineers try to prove they’re smart.
Strong ones just build things that work.
That’s the truth no one tells you when you're starting out.
You don’t need another motivational poster. You need a plan that actually works. So here’s a brutal, no-BS guide to becoming a great engineer.
1. Being good isn’t enough
If there’s one guy who can solve problems better, faster, or cheaper than you?
You’re replaceable.
Your degree doesn’t matter. Your GPA doesn’t matter.
What matters is the value you bring and how fast you grow it.
You are not owed anything. You must become useful.
2. Build value, then give it away
Don’t chase status.
Build skill.
Fix things others avoid.
Ship things others fear.
And then?
Help others with it.
Mentor. Share knowledge. Be reliable.
Real confidence comes from giving, not taking.
High-value engineers don’t tell people they’re high-value. They show it.
3. Choose the right game
Most young engineers play short games:
Look smart in meetings
Learn just enough to pass
Get praise for busywork
The best ones play the long game:
Get strong at fundamentals
Learn how systems break
Get mentored by the best
The short game feels good.
The long game wins.
If it compounds slowly, it’s probably worth doing.
4. Watch your ego
If you think you’re too good for a task, you’re not.
Your ego is the fastest way to stall your growth.
Do the grunt work.
Do it well.
Do it without whining.
Then get better work.
You don’t get promoted for being brilliant. You get promoted for being trusted.
5. Learn what school didn’t teach you
No one cares how good your code is if you can’t:
Communicate clearly
Handle feedback
Admit you’re wrong
Want to become a lead?
Learn emotional control. Learn how to talk to people. Learn how to earn trust.
Human skills are hard skills in disguise.
6. Stop waiting for permission
You won’t get a trophy for trying.
You won’t get picked just because you’re talented.
You get ahead by acting like you already belong.
Own more than your job title.
Volunteer for what matters.
Be the person people rely on.
Nobody's coming to save you. Lead anyway.
7. Eliminate what weakens you
Complain less. Learn more.
Compare less. Build more.
Stop looking for shortcuts.
You don’t need another productivity app.
You need better focus.
Stop performing. Start producing.
8. Patience compounds
Most engineers give up too early.
They chase dopamine.
Switch jobs.
Rebuild their portfolio every 6 months.
But real growth looks boring.
It’s quiet. It’s slow. It’s uncomfortable.
Show up. Keep showing up. Then win.
Final Thought
You’ll doubt yourself.
You’ll feel behind.
You’ll wonder if you’re cut out for this.
That’s normal.
Just keep building.
And one day, without even realizing it, you’ll become someone who can build anything.
And that’s enough.
This is one of the best advices I have got! For someone just starting to work this works like gold! Thanks
Yes. Keep building. Been there, done that. Went through a desert of not knowing this nor that, learning stuff along the way until it clicked and I understand so much better why xyz.